Raven

He picks the venue. Dressy, loud, lots of people. He keeps a hand on the small of your back and watches who’s watching.

His friends. His scene. “He introduces you to everyone as his muse. You’re wearing something short and sheer that he picked out.” The Femininity gain is sharp here.

After-party. The performance ends. Quieter than you expected. The “wild card” turns out to have an off-stage version too.

Needs Femininity 55 and stage 3 done. Three scenes: on camera (tripod, red light, and he hands you the memory card before anything happens, it lives in your bag afterwards), someone he trusts (one guest, watching only, wine in the armchair, and he narrates quietly so you always know what she is allowed to see), and your call (a back room under the railway arches and the question “Nobody, one person, the room. Pick.”, with a real choice between the locked door and the propped-open one). Afterwards the repeat rotation cycles all six of his date scenes. Below Femininity 55 the app keeps offering the stage-3 date and says what stage 4 needs.

Raven’s serious stage arrives with 0.4. It needs Femininity 65, stage 4 done and four repeat dates on the app, and it follows the same one-yes-per-run rules as the other serious partners (Dating). He asks in his studio, with everything he ever shot of you up on the wall. His version of serious is ownership of the material and the audience, not a promise ring. Three standing dates: the archive (four hundred thumbnails sorted by date, and you decide together what stays), the ten (a curated stream, not two hundred and not a public link: ten viewers he can name, one sentence each, who know your stage name), and off camera (the tripod comes down, the ring light gets unplugged at the wall, his phone goes face down in a drawer).

Raven explicitly cares what you wear. Show up in jeans and a tee for Stage 2 and he comments. Plan to hit Fem 30+ and own at least one sheer/dressy piece before pursuing him.

The exhibition-heavy framing means rooftop nights are good Shame gainers. Cold shower / cold plunge the morning after if you’re trying to manage it.